Relationships
October 11th, 2008
Over the past few years or so, I?e had the chance to mingle and meet many successful people. Actually, many of them I have known for years and I meet them regularly, but I guess I had just taken the fact that they were successful for granted. When I realised I could learn so much from them, and see what they do to be successful, maybe I can be successful too.
I ask all of them a simple question: ?ow can I become successful like you??and the reply I always get is along the lines of ?ow successful you are is dependent on the quality of your relationships.?br />
This has got me thinking and pondering on the topic of RELATIONSHIPS for a long time now, and people who know me well enough, have always said that they can see a change in me, when they do.
And because the Law of Attraction plays a crucial role in my life, I think that if I am Deliberately Creating or attracting more of what I want then how can I maintain good relationships with people who may not appreciate what I want? How can I have what I want while at the same time allow the other person to have what they want? Especially if what we each desire something different?
HARMONY
If you?e in a relationship (it doesn? have to be a personal one!), one of the main things you tend to look out for is harmony. In my house, if I leave things lying around, I need to take into consideration how it may affect someone else, but if it? just in my room, then I don?.
The only way to get what you want, while the other gets what they want to is through Clear Communication. Most disagreements come about NOT by deliberately disagreeing, but by being in DEFAULT mode and not understanding what the other person is wanting.
Here are 4 steps to Crystal Clear Communication that will help maintain the intention of being in harmony.
1. Identify your desire: Become crystal clear about what you want and why you want it.
2. Effectively communicate your desire and intention to the other person.
3. Communicate segment by segment. Take time to be sure you are fully communicating and fully understood.
4. Understand your emotions and how you are feeling as this will help you tell whether you are in harmony, or not, and what to do to move towards to it.
One 'trap' I've noticed is that I often think I already know how a person is going to respond to my communication--and according to Law of Attraction, if I think they are going to react strongly, they most likely will.
The trick is to BELIEVE that the Universe wants to give me the desire of my heart AND maintain HARMONY in my relationships. How? Ah, that's the fun part. The Universe has an infinite number of ways to achieve this feat...that's half the fun...wondering and watching how it will work out.
But why am I telling you this as a musician? Well, it? a success secret that? really worked with me, and I?e received so much abundance in terms of prosperity, money, wealth, and much more by creating harmonious relationships where people build awareness, trust and love for each other that they work with each other in the exchange of ?nergies.?br />
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